For several days I have been in shock over a comment by an
intelligent, kind and caring Christian woman who announced to me as if
it were fact that we would be at war in the middle east "until those
muslims stop attacking us." She added that she didn't see any hope for
an end it.
I am dumbfunded. I am also amazed that I didn't just
deck her for her willful ignorance. I was actually really nice to her.
I forcefully changed the subject. She was so nice, I just didn't want
to come down on her the way I normally do when people exhibit their
ignorance, when such ignorance causes death.
I was at the local Bi-Mart to get some seedling soil for the garden
that I hope will offer me a few moments of peace this coming summer. I
saw this older woman with about 20 gallons of bottled water and I
stopped to chat to let her know that with containers she could get
filtered water from a machine for .35 cents per gallon and save $1000's
per year!
She laughed, as she was buying distilled water for a good friend who
had kidney stones. "Ohhhhhh," I said, "never mind!" And we chatted
about her friend who had this sudden downturn in her health (probably
requiring surgery if she can't dissolve the Stones). Her friend's
husband just deployed to Iraq a few weeks ago as part of a medical
team. And they have several elementary school aged children, one of
whom had a fall that required a trip to the ER for stiches.
I expressed
how I thought that the health issues in the family are probably the
natural result of, essentially, losing the patriarch.
I also expressed regret that the husband had to go to Iraq.
My new stranger-friend agreed, but assured me that the husband
absolutely wanted to go to serve his country. (I can't imagine any
thinking person believing that deploying to Iraq 4 years into it was
'serving their country'. Did they not get my Feb blog post on what will
happen to them if this man is seriously injured?)
Sensing that I was probably talking to a bush/war supporter though,
I stated that I was sorry it was even necessary for ANYONE to fight ANY
war. And that's when my new stranger-friend hit me in the gut.
Oh, well, until the Muslims over there stop attacking us, we are going to have to continue to fight them there.
She expressed that as if it made sense and as if I would say, "Oh
yeah... well, of course, that's exactly right. Those evil Muslims,
dammit!"
Okay, earlier I said I was reallly, really nice. I lied. I had to say
something. I knew immediately that going into the truth talking points
(no WMDs... they didn't have anything to do with 9/11.....it's a civil
war) was not going to go over well. And since she reduced it down to a
RELIGIOUS issue... I figured fair was fair, and I said, with much
animation:
Oh, I don't think it's a "Muslim Problem." I mean, I am
not a Christian, and people right here in this town treat me like I am
some Satan Worshipper or something! I have a problem with that! [I
got scared cause I just know to my bone that she probably thought..
egad, it's a damn lesbian! Lesbians and Satan are one and the same!]
[I continued....] I mean, I am a really nice and decent person. Ask my dog! [who was thankfully sitting in the car next to me looking happy and healthy]
So maybe we should deal with religious extremism here before we attack
it over there. And I might add that if the western world had not caused
complete havoc in the middle east for the past 90 years, things would
be a lot different [knowing full well that this woman would have no clue that the chopping up of the Ottoman Empire is at the root of this mess....]
To my surprise, my new stranger-friend didn't even start edging away
from me. I give her credit. She didn't respond in any noticeable way.
Not even a facial expression. Maybe it was the strangest response she
had ever heard and maybe she will think there might be more to the
story?
I then just changed the subject back to her sick friend and gave her
the very best advice ever for dealing with Kidney Stones. I sure hope
she tells her friend try castor oil packs. She sounded like she would.
I wonder if she is as dumbstruck with what I expressed as I am with what she said?
I know one thing, there's a soul sickness in this nation. No
amount of reason, truth or fact about our illegal invastion and
ultimate occupation in the middle of a bloody civil war that we started
is going to get through to a subtantial number of our citizens. These
people seriously believe the WHOLE ISSUE comes down to "fighting them
there, so we don't have to fight them here."
"So we don't have to fight them here.... " Where do you go with that nutwing talking point?
I am sorry some bad guys did something really evil in 2001. That was
a bad day. I remember an interview by Bill Clinton from wayyy back. He
was talking about how you handle foreign policy with different cultures
and how you really need to take their history in account to understand
what formed their belief system or national character. One example he
gave was China. China has a loooonnnnngggg arse history of being
invaded. As a result, they are a bit paranoid and making agreements
with them takes some TLC to gain their trust. They require big
safeguards and boundaries (like a Great Wall as an example. Hey, aren't
we building a Great Wall too?).
The USA? What is our history? It's been a pretty fine ride these
past 250 years! We have had TWO attacks in the past 200 years. One by a
country (Japan in 1941) and one by a motley crew of 200 extremist
haters (Bin Laden in 2001). TWO. We have never had an invasion where a
bunch of foreigners dropped in and took over our whole lives. Why are
we so paranoid as a result of 9/11? Is it because we believed we were
untouchable and we are reacting with total indignancy at the gall that
someone would blow something up on our soil? We didn't call out the
cavalry when other nations had stuff blown up on their soils.
The war propagandists have a good portion of our population believing
that that last attack was an absolute attack 'on our way of life." A
building came down. 3000+ people died. Let's not exaggerate here,
folks! That day I went to my job and knew I was safe traveling about
the city. I had sex with my main man that night (well, I am lying....
but we coulda if we wanted to and there wouldn't have been any bombs
going off in the neighborhood). I even went to the grocery store that
evening to pick up some things for supper - with no fear. I prayed
(without persecution) many times that day. Heck, my boss worked my arse
off that day. It was imperative that we get that trademark application
filed, dammit! Business as usual.
The only change in my life was that I was sad and upset about what had happened. But my 'way of life'
didn't change. That didn't happen until a few weeks later when those I
elected to represent me in Congress passed the US Patriot Act. That's
the day my life changed.
- Today I know that everything I write on this blog is being censored.
- Every e-mail I send should be considered 'read and filed by the government.'
- I consider every phone call I make as being listened to and 'evaluated.'
- The news stories I read this week about Khalid confessing to
everything except the assassination of JFK are really about my
government performing torture as a routine tool for fighting this 'war
on terror.' (We used to set the standards for civilized behavior!)
-
I know that when I voted in 2002 and 2004 that it is very possible that
my ballot was thrown out on grounds that I am ineligible to vote for
some erroneous reason -- and I will never be told about it OR that the
tabulating machines didn't count my vote.
- I know that if I write a letter to George W. Bush, Jr telling him
what I really think about him that I might come home and find that
someone has been in my house going through my personal effects.
- I know that all the letters I have written to congress people
expressing my anger and dissent has definitely put me on a list
somewheres in the federal government.
- I know that marching against the then-potential invasion of Iraq in Jan and Feb 2003 put me on the same list.
- And the worst change in my life? Knowing that my country has killed over 600,000 people. Boy, that should make bad guys re-evaluate future actions against the US of A, eh?
Oh yeah, I am afraid. But it isn't a fear of Muslims. Lord, where IS
a mosque when a fearful, doubtful gal needs one? I am in need of
spiritual solace in a big way. On the contrary, I am afraid of the
evil-doers that have been propped up by arrogantly self-defined
Christians who have propped up some scary traitors to the US
Constitution who have, indeed, attacked my 'way of life.'
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